Some of you have asked to know more about the app. So here it is — a real walkthrough, with real screenshots, of exactly what parents and kids experience.
Step 1 — Parents set up the family
It starts with you. You sign up with a verified email and get a unique family code. That code is what connects everything — you'll use it to set up the app on your children's devices, so only your family can access your family's account. From there, add your kids, set up behaviors, create rewards, and track everything in one place.
The parent dashboard
Everything in one place — family missions, your kids' progress, cash value settings, and quick access to the inbox. Takes about five minutes to set up.
Step 2 — Choose what kids work on
Pick from a library of age-appropriate behaviors — Showed Kindness, Practiced Empathy, Stayed Calm, Led with Courage. Assign them to each child and set how many KindCoins each one is worth. And if your family has something specific you want to work on, you can create your own custom behaviors too — tailored to exactly what matters in your home right now.
The behaviors library
Choose from behaviors organized by age group, or create your own. Toggle each one on or off per child. It reflects your family's values — not a generic list someone else decided on.
Step 3 — Kids write what they did
Kids log in on their own device with a family code and a 4-digit PIN — no email needed. They tap a behavior they practiced and write a short reflection in their own words.
That reflection is where the magic happens. Not a checkbox. A real moment of self-awareness — and the beginning of a conversation. What the child writes goes straight to the parent. It's a daily window into your child's world that most families never get. That kind of communication between a parent and child? That's gold.
And if a child needs more than a check-in — if something is weighing on them and they need to talk to an adult right now — there's a link right there for them to reach out. The parent gets notified immediately and can take it from there.
What the child writes
"I cheered Alex up when he was sad." Simple, real, entirely theirs. This is the conversation starter you never knew you needed.
Step 4 — It goes to the parent for approval
After submitting, the child sees their check-in is waiting. They know you'll read it. That anticipation — waiting for a parent's response — is part of what makes the habit stick.
Waiting for approval
The child sees their submission is pending. They're not just checking a box — they're waiting to be seen and recognized by someone they love.
Step 5 — Parents read it and write back
The check-in lands in your inbox immediately. You read what they wrote — in their own words. And this is your moment.
A chance to create a spark of happiness for your child with nothing more than your recognition. A chance to say: I see you. I know you. I already knew this was in you. Write back, reinforce what you always knew was brave and good and kind in your child, and approve their KindCoins with one tap.
The parent's inbox
Read what your child wrote, write a personal reply, and approve their KindCoins. Your reply shows up on their screen as a warm message. Instead of "how was your day?" — you already know.
Step 6 — KindCoins earned!
When you approve, the child sees it immediately. Their balance goes up. Their streak grows. And your message appears on their screen.
But it's even more than that. In one single moment, your child gets recognized by the person who matters most to them, earns KindCoins — or real cash if you've set that up — and sees themselves one step closer to their goal. Three wins at once. For the child. For the parent. For the family.
That's not just a good habit forming. That's a good relationship deepening.
KindCoins earned
The green checkmark, the KindCoins added, the streak building. Kids see their progress in real time. And if you set a KC to cash rate in settings, they'll also see exactly what their coins are worth in real dollars. It feels good — and that feeling is what keeps them coming back tomorrow.
Step 7 — Kids save up for rewards
KindCoins add up. Kids can see exactly what they're working toward and exactly how many coins they need. That clarity is motivating in a way vague praise never is.
Rewards can be as simple as a pizza night or a playdate with a friend. Or they can be something bigger — a goal the whole family works toward together, like a Disney cruise. Parents set up the rewards themselves or choose from the built-in ones. Either way, you can customize it completely to your own family's dreams and values.
And when kids are all working toward the same thing? That's when something really special happens. They stop competing and start collaborating. They become a team.
The rewards screen
Parents create the rewards that matter to their family — Movie Night, Pizza Friday, Game Time. Kids work toward something real. Learning delayed gratification one KindCoin at a time.
One week in, my granddaughter texted me: "Today was amazing no fights." That's when I knew it was working.
Join founding families on TestFlight
Enter your email and we'll send you the TestFlight link. Free for founding families through beta and 6 months after.
First time using TestFlight? You'll see two steps on Apple's page. Step 1: install Apple's free TestFlight app (only takes a minute). Step 2: come back and tap "View in TestFlight" to add KindCoin to your phone.
iPhone, iOS 16+. No spam, ever.
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